Some silly things men say

So just a few, you might know of some, But We recently visited some friends with their new baby 3 weeks old, she had a rough time during the first stages of labour, which ended with her having a c section no surprises there. And do you know what she remembered about the experience? Her husbands comment when he turned up to the hospital "Man I'm Tired" He may not live that down, Then visited other friends who are due in four weeks for their first baby, she has not been able to sleep comfortably for the past 8 weeks, asks her husband for a massage and he says "I can't bend down because I get a sore back" Really?

Well I have decided that a rather good unspoken about topic for possibly alot of women out there would be "How to be a dairy farmers wife?" Not just a dairy farmer but any farmer, I only have experience for a dairy farmer. Of course its hard enough to be a wife let alone be one for a farmer As I have been going through some rather tough times in the last three years, I can tell you it feels like I have put 20 years of marriage into the last 6 months! It has however ever been worth it, but I can understand why it is that farmers tend to have up to 3 wives in their life time. And the last one that makes it to the "ever after stage"- end up not getting married- seems to have similar traits to the old boys mother and works harder than ever to keep her position. But I am young and I have only been here 3 years so I could be wrong! Just my first impressions, It must get better over time with a little hard work, As I am Just a like a baby here learning to talk for the first time! I know what needs to be said but I say it at the wrong time Makes sense?

Baby Can Talk

Hi There I am very new to this I have not been able to check any blogs to see what people are up to but I'll get there :-) New Zealand has just won the Rugby World cup Whoop Whoop!!